Journey of a Borderline: Everything Happens For A Reason

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Everything Happens For A Reason

I'm pretty terrified tonight. Tomorrow morning is the team meeting with the State, my son's therapist, his parents and several others. I do not know what this meeting will decide. I have no idea how it's going to turn out. I don't know if they will decide to let him come home with me or not.
I'm going to be praying tonight. I'm praying for the strength to accept whatever decisions are made tomorrow. I'm praying for God to lead the decision makers in the direction that is best for my son. I'm taking a deep breathe and turning it over... I have no control of what will happen. I am going to try my very hardest to trust that there is a God, and that He knows my son, and knows what path to send us on.

Please pray for him.

Kelly

2 comments:

David said...: Kelly,

I know that there is a God and that he not only knows your son but he loves you both more than you will ever understand in this life. I will be praying for you guys tonight and in the morning that you will both have the strength to accept the decisions made and that hopefully that decision will be for him to come home with you as soon as possible.

Love,
David; July 28, 2010 at 10:39 PM
Kate said...: You are both in my thoughts and prayers.....
Kate; July 29, 2010 at 6:39 PM

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Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious mental illness characterized by pervasive instability in moods, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and behavior. This instability often disrupts family and work life, long-term planning, and the individual's sense of self-identity. Originally thought to be at the "borderline" of psychosis, people with BPD suffer from a disorder of emotion regulation. While less well known than schizophrenia or bipolar disorder (manic-depressive illness), BPD is more common, affecting 2 percent of adults, mostly young women.¹ There is a high rate of self-injury without suicide intent, as well as a significant rate of suicide attempts and completed suicide in severe cases.²^,3 Patients often need extensive mental health services, and account for 20 percent of psychiatric hospitalizations.⁴ Yet, with help, many improve over time and are eventually able to lead productive lives.

Symptoms

While a person with depression or bipolar disorder typically endures the same mood for weeks, a person with BPD may experience intense bouts of anger, depression, and anxiety that may last only hours, or at most a day.⁵ These may be associated with episodes of impulsive aggression, self-injury, and drug or alcohol abuse. Distortions in cognition and sense of self can lead to frequent changes in long-term goals, career plans, jobs, friendships, gender identity, and values. Sometimes people with BPD view themselves as fundamentally bad, or unworthy. They may feel unfairly misunderstood or mistreated, bored, empty, and have little idea who they are. Such symptoms are most acute when people with BPD feel isolated and lacking in social support, and may result in frantic efforts to avoid being alone.

People with BPD often have highly unstable patterns of social relationships. While they can develop intense but stormy attachments, their attitudes towards family, friends, and loved ones may suddenly shift from idealization (great admiration and love) to devaluation (intense anger and dislike). Thus, they may form an immediate attachment and idealize the other person, but when a slight separation or conflict occurs, they switch unexpectedly to the other extreme and angrily accuse the other person of not caring for them at all. Even with family members, individuals with BPD are highly sensitive to rejection, reacting with anger and distress to such mild separations as a vacation, a business trip, or a sudden change in plans. These fears of abandonment seem to be related to difficulties feeling emotionally connected to important persons when they are physically absent, leaving the individual with BPD feeling lost and perhaps worthless. Suicide threats and attempts may occur along with anger at perceived abandonment and disappointments.

People with BPD exhibit other impulsive behaviors, such as excessive spending, binge eating and risky sex. BPD often occurs together with other psychiatric problems, particularly bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, and other personality disorders.

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Everything Happens For A Reason

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